Now? Or Later?

Recently I was looking for new strategies to organize my house. It still hasn’t happened, but I found a strategy that works for holding off food cravings, too!

I wish I could remember where I read this one. If I find it, I’ll come back and link it up! The idea was this: when you walk by clutter in your house, you ask yourself, “Take care of this now, or deal with it later.” Usually, it’s pretty easy to take care of it right in that moment. And then you have less clutter to deal with later.

When it comes to food, it works the other way around.

When I find myself having a craving, I stop and ask myself, “Do I want this now … or do I want to enjoy a thinner body later?” It’s nothing revolutionary, but having this little phrase is proving helpful.

I’ve shortened it to something of a little mantra: “Now? Or later?”

It doesn’t mean that I always skip the snack. Sometimes I do choose “now”. But it reminds me of my goal and the bigger picture.

One, Two, Three

Short and sweet, I feel I have three things to focus on as I move forward, if I want to achieve my goals of being healthier and shedding the weight I no longer need.

  1. Loving myself.  I believe this is the most important element if long-term weight-loss is to be achieved. Other things factor in, like diet and exercise, but nothing *real* can happen if I don’t love myself – including my body – including my body right now.
  2. Appreciating.  It’s time to take credit for all that I have accomplished! My weight may be fluctuating. It is still less than it was two years ago. And along the way, I have done some serious emotion purging of old beliefs, judgments, and fears. I also believe it is important to appreciate the extraordinary life I have – my husband, my children, my family, my friends, my home, my work, my growth, my support…. The list goes on and on. And that’s not to mention the beauty in nature all around us, a song that uplifts me, soft sheets on the bed, spotting a hawk soaring above, a delicious chocolate chip cookie – on and on and on – all the big and little things that make life so sweet!
  3. Letting go of Control.  This is a big one for me. It’s time to hold the reigns a little less tightly. In ALL areas of my life, including my need to lose weight. My 2-year-old son’s favorite song is “Let it Go” from Frozen. I love to listen to it over and over almost as much as he does, because it reminds me to let go 🙂

And one final note about loving myself. At the risk of sounding arrogant (which I do not think I am), I had a thought about my fears of people judging me: seriously, I think that all the people in my life – family, friends, fellow parents at school – would actually say I’m pretty darned amazing! I don’t know who I think is out there judging me so harshly! The only one doing that is ME. And it’s time to stop.